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Is it even ethical to do so? won't you intrude his privacy?
Why did he stop loving me? is a question that many young female lovers have. Some go so far as to add pussy sweeteners to their natural sweetness in order to secure a man's softspot.
Now consider this: does it truly safeguard my position? Where did I make a blunder? You will learn about one of the things you should not do in a relationship in this post.
What exactly are we talking about? Yes, as the title suggests, I'm urging you not to move in with your boyfriend without his permission, and I'll give you 4 reasons why.
So gather your thoughts and consider the four reasons I've listed below.
- Love dwindles.
Your guy is the most attentive and affectionate lover on the planet to you. He is just the best; none of your ex-boyfriends have ever made you feel like a queen, but this current guy does. His thoughtful gestures compel you to move in with him without first requesting his permission, simply because you want to keep him safe. Now that you've moved in with him, the trouble begins.
Everything changes all of a sudden, and you begin to believe that "all men are slime", but you sold yourself out at a bargain the moment you moved in with him without his permission, because he no longer battles to see, perceive, or even mate with you. He begins to regard you as a liability and claims ownership over you because, after all, he feeds, clothed, and shelters you. If you try to bring it up, he'll just respond, "If you're tired, leave my house; after all, you pushed yourself on me." However, if you look closely, he no longer begs for sex, but rather orders it and go as far as to ghost you. At the end of the day, you will have no choice but to take the exit door.
- Abuse of the physical kind
The majority of girls who live with their lover are subjected to physical molestation, but is this true? Some guys are exhausted and frustrated because they are accommodating a girl with whom they have not engaged, but they don't know how to urge her to leave. These males will resort to violence only to let you know that they no longer feel the same way about you as they did previously. If you try to question or challenge their actions, they will beat you up as a warning that the partnership is no longer working. Then you start to wonder how they went from Angel to Lucifer, but the truth is that you were the one who drew out the beast in them.
- You devalue yourself
Basically, when you acquire anything for free, it has no value before you, and only a few people will notice or appreciate it. Under their roof, certain guys will make you feel miserable, depressed, and rejected; they will make you feel like a second-class citizen. He snubs you when you try to join a conversation, whether it's private or public, and he doesn't care how you feel about it. He'll embarrass you wherever and at any moment. He wants the world to know that you forced your way into his life.
- Giving up on love
After going through all of this from your partner, you may opt to stay single and give up on love because you've already formed the opinion that "all guys are slime." Even if the guy has the appropriate mindset, this may prevent you from taking any relationship seriously again. When a guy approaches you, you become so naive that it feels like another death trap. If you decide to settle down with another person, your past memories will continue to haunt you, making you a poisonous lover.
It's critical that you safeguard your self-worth in every position you find yourself in. Don't be the termite all of the time. Love is real if only you learn to do the right thing.
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